My husband of 22 years doesn't want to talk about or recognize my love or interest in a bike. I signed up for the 2 week class at the comm college for the MSF class. He freaked out and told me no. I went anyway, telling him I'd use it as a guide to see if it was really something I wanted to do. (I knew full well it was, but thought it might help ease him into idea) I passed and have my endorsement. I even tried getting him into doing it with me. He wants nothing to do with bikes, he is convinced I will get killed on one. I used to ride dirt bikes and atv's, and tried for years to to get him to buy some to take to our cabin in Northern Michigan. Again, no interest. I recently lost 140 pounds and have decided to fullfill some of my "bucket list" before I get to old to really enjoy. He just isn't getting it, and keeps going back to you will die on one.
Has anyone else dealt with husband and family who are dead set against you riding?
Any ideas, comments or articles on the subject?
Help...I love my husband, but this just doesn't feel fair to me. Am I being the unfair one?